Love is forever yeah?
I’m pretty sure you disagree, I did too. I mean, what is love if it’s not till death do us apart? What is love if it’s not the fairytale stories we all knew as it was with Disney characters.
What’s with it really?
Forever is till the end, yes. And love ends too right? I mean, we fall out of love sometimes, don’t we?
Forever isn’t the old age we think it is, it’s how long something lasted.
It could be a day, it could be two, it could as well be years.
When two people are in love they promise themselves to be together forever yeah, (most of us do, you don’t need to deny it).
Imagine a partner died just the next day or all of a sudden, so many complications come in and you had to let go , that promise wasn’t broken because yeah, you did love yourselves till forever.
That was your forever. With the person anyway.
Love is beautiful yeah?
The beauty of two imperfect beings coming together, bringing different complexity, ready to accept every flaw and what makes them who they’re personally.
But is that all it entails?
Love is two faced.
The beauty and the ugliness makes it love.
Love is amazing.
Beautiful yet tainted.
But most of us have failed to acknowledge the ugly part.
We all crave that special place so we subconsciously search for it
A place without blemish
And we want perfection so much we forget imperfections makes them so.
We feel mistakes should hardly be made when in love.
We get hurt when these expectations come short, Sometimes we get angry not because of the pain but cause it didn’t come out to be what we had pictured, what we wanted,what has been imagined and lives in our head.
So then you start to question yourself if you made a mistake with your choice or your ideal partner wasn’t really it. But have you forgotten about compromise?
Have you forgotten about tolerance? Or you choose to ignore it?
Do you realize that sometimes, the mistake comes from you and conversations go a long way in a relationship?
And isn’t it crazy that I might be wrong?
So you tell me, what does love even mean to you?
It’s been a minute.
The coffee I ordered for came in late. I really might just have to start making it myself😑
I hope y’all got yours steaming hot though, I mean we had a lot of time for that.
Anyway, I’d love to hear your views as always. Blow my mind!